Where have all the good women gone?

In the past, I have heard women say, "Where have all the good men gone?" By that, I assume they mean the ones that treat you well, open doors, speak to others in a courteous manner, and are honest. Yes, I know that humor, good looks, ability to care, and so on are in the list of things too... So here is my question now...

Where have all the good women gone? Can I be direct? You know I will be.

First of all I will say that I have seen many many beautiful women in my life. Some in the past and some very recently. Beauty, although, is not everything or even enough. That might sound slightly conceited but I'll explain as you know I will. The mental attitude (personality at least) or the mental outlook that someone has can either make it or break it. Someones goals that they have (or lack there of) can be a big influence on this as well. For example, there was a girl in high school that I wanted to date so badly... but when I finally went out with her, her attitude and personality completely made her unattractive.. and I thought she was VERY attractive to begin with.

Where have the women gone that respect family values? What about the ones that show an interest in other's ideas, thoughts, and feelings? Is it all about what they want to do or what can be done for them? It seems that many people I come in contact with only want what is good for them, not what's good as a couple. I think the respect that women (and men) have held so dearly to their heart has left them and been replaced with greed and self indulgence. Where's the love?

Now, on the other hand, just because I say the things I say does not mean that there aren't women out there that are still wonderful. I'm going to use a cousin that I always admired very well here. She was always very beautiful, kind, caring, very sincere, and above all, honest and respectable. Even now I believe her to be one of the most beautiful and caring people on the outside and inside (No, I'm not telling who).

I'm speaking of this for several reasons... Yes, I do have my eyes open to date someone. I'm not looking for a fling or some short term thing. I'm looking for a best friend and partner for life. The other thing is this... While I am looking for someone to date, I am also being picky in a sense of someone that will be a role model to my son. Do I really want Cason learning the ways of someone that is not sincere or not caring? I've lived my life, I need to teach Cason to live his. And only the best love and understanding will be suitable for my son.. no half-assing here. Give it your best and your all!

So, for those of you that get angry when you read this, I'm sorry, maybe it hits down deep with you. Usually the people that are genuine will know that they are and will see my side of this. Of course, I am open to ALL comments and interpretations. You know I love the feedback...

So... where are you? Where is the woman that doesn't mind a man opening the door for her? Where is the one that remembers what family values are? Where is the one that will choose a day in the park over a day at the spa? Where is she I ask? Where is the one that recognizes love, caring, and commitment? Where is the one that sees that all they can ask for is someone that works hard for what they have, no matter how little or great that it may be?

So I ask the people... look at yourself deeply and think about the type of person that you are.